Suicide attempt sin between youngsters especially in School Students is increasing at a higher Rate. Gods own country is becoming the Floor for the death of Dance. what happened to the students of kerala.The government is still studying about the topic. No action had been adopted.Recently three girls in high school committed suicide. Their last Letter to their parents gives the reason .they have been sexually exploited by their own calls mates.Why the new generation is being So sensitive towards Problems ?
Incident
1.Three girls of a Vocational Higher Secondary School in Alappuzha district were found dead in their classroom, two fellow students have been arrested on the charge of abetting their suicide. they were taken into custody following a detailed investigation, including a lie-detector test.
The incident occurred on November 17, 2008, when the trio Juli, Veni and Anila Babu were found dead in their classroom. The students hadn’t returned home after school and their parents lodged a missing report with the police. Following a search, their bodies were found in the classroom late in the night. The girls committed suicide by drinking a pesticide.
2..A Class IX student of Holy Family Girls’ High School at Angamaly committed suicide at the school on Wednesday after finding out that she had failed in the annual examination.
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The propensity of the Keralites to live beyond their means has significantly contributed to the problems. Love failure and Immoral’s push the Youth into peer pressure. The Infatuations in this young age, as in High School influenced by the medias, make them to experience the different pleasures such as Sensuals, Outings, Watching movies and riding.. etc. The new age Add-ons to love such as Mobile phones and Internet make the path so easy n comfortable. Phone sex is a major physiognomic attributes which cause Personality Deformities.
- Reasons for Infatuations
- Impact of films
- Porn’s and Influence of Dirty magazines
- The western culture-Dating. free sex
- Sexual stories from seniours
the strong sexual desire in youth, make them to show calf love or puppy love. Just an attraction. the influence of emotional films play abig role in youth, as it is the time of Formation of Personality and Character-The complete individual. The Porn’s create an image that pleasure is the ultimate thing and it can be obtained through any means. The Great Indian culture which taught us to respect the SELF and Body and the Partner is being altered. This alteration made antisocial personalities, anti social elements.
Drugs and Drinks also carry an important role. The new age partying and Pub Culture made the youth to misuse the freedom to live. They learned the freedom as Freedom to share a night with whom they like and freedom to wander anywhere. The teenagers studying at metropolitan Cities, Growing in the new Culture, never know about the Family Values and the Importance of family. The Children in Residential Schools used to feel their parent’s care in the Cheques which mailed to them. The new corporate parenting never asks about the needs of children? .They doesn’t have any friends except the Animated Characters in their Gadgets. They used to spent time with chatting friends and their Ultra new I pods & Lappys. The mother who had to care their children and to share them about Morals and to Interact them in friendly manner about the Values of Family and Life, at present ha no time even for breast feeding. Thank God for Pacifier, if it was not discovered what shud the mothers do? The Busy fathers had no time to play with their children, they think they are only responsible to initialize the birth .the rest belongs to mother. Partying and even Office spouses had created many divorces in the corporate men’s life. The Step mothers and Baby Centers which started as a business in Europe is transplanted to India. How rude the world goes? Parents had no time to spend with their own blood and to share their problems and to make them happy .They think money is the only matter that is needed for their children.
The parental Caring which involves pampering the newbie close to the chest had been taken its position into the Baby Carrier. The news paper had a Big AD column for the Service Sector. The Number of AD’s For the Need of Step Mother is increasing Day by Day. When the Teenagers who found themselves satisfied and Happy in the Opposite Sex will be forced to give themselves as a gift to their love. They don’t know about the Brutal intention behind this. The Teenage mind needs to be loved and to be cared. They will search if it’s not given in the school. After the In factual love, when the mate Smiles at them, they will Broke up. On the final look toward the past they came to Realize they don’t had what need for them. While seeing the other happy teens lead to the decision to put an End to the life.
Measure needed to Adopt.
1. All the European Countries Had a Student Counselor at School to whom which they can discuss problems. Government should take Necessary steps for this so that the students can find a solution for their Mental Pressure
2 .Awareness Programs to Put an An End to The Greed Of the parents, ie Not to pressurize the students for their own dreams Such as for Fame, Courses they Don’t like, Life Matters, etc…..
3. Teenagers should Undergone sexual Education to react against Sexual abuse
4. They should be Given Prior lessons about the Anti Social elements
5. At the time of Personal growth they should not be isolated ,they smust be allowed to mingle with opposite ses so as to respect others
6. Teach them about the moral Values and about the Family values
7. Last but Least, Female Anatomy exposure in AD’S and Medias and PORN’S Influence must be banned.
8. Aware them about the Influence of Porn Films may Harm their Future
9. Drinks and alcoholic materials and Drugs Should be banned from school/College Surroundings
Last but least the parents hould interfere in the day to day matters of their Children ,especially Teenagers
3 comments:
yea frnd……u re abslotely right on this issue….one thing i ve to add is that the children learn all sort of hings from the society in which dey r.OUrs is a reserve soceity unlike d americans or western europeans which are very much open.So tryin to adapt to deir culture ,n imbalance is created whic damages d whole system…Society can try to imitate gud things for development,but learn to avoid bad things.After all children can becme only as gud as the soceity.
well written article..but some disagreements wid u
I dont think drinks lead to a suicide… Now a days drinks are not at all a big thing in school/college . More than 30% are drunkards(As far as a college is concerned).how many of these drunkards have committed suicide? In the ambalapuzha case ,where the girls drunk?no, not at all..They might be sexually abused .But i think sincere sex with GF is not a wrong thing,Who has a problem,if BF and GF are not having problem in a sex,in that case THE SEX becomes Love making.So whats the real prob? Nothing but the wrong attitudes(lack of maturity) in school/College lads.And its all up to parents ,and how they treat their kids…For a certain extent ,freedom given by parents gives good amount of Maturity to kids..As u said,Why should a student commit suicide for an examination failure? I think its the stress from parents..
I think that the reason behind the suicides is lack of maturity in teenagers.Many of the teenagers are influenced by the medias & as a result they are willing to do such type of activities,most of all their parents are not take a better care….
If we make them clear about that then they won’t do it.
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